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Monday, December 22, 2008

It's a Boy!


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We went in for our 18 week fetal anatomy scan. What we had suspected for weeks was confirmed- it's a boy! Ok, so the first pic is a little misleading. His "parts" are circled, and the larger thing to the left is actually a leg! He has continued to measure big, so I may be further along than previously thought, and my due date may be pushed back from May 24th to May 13th or so. I'll post an update when I know for sure!

Everything in his little body looked just perfect- from his heart to the brain to the kidneys and badder to the placenta. Robert and I were holding hands the whole time, and I kept saying to him, "I can't believe we made that!" It's such a miracle.

He was posing with his hands behind his head, then one hand on his chin like "The Thinker," then he would suck his thumb and remove it and make funny faces, including a smile (2 pictures above).


Is it just me, or do I spot Robert's lips and my long upper lip and strong chin?!

Sunday, December 21, 2008

Beet It!

Our vegetable garden is really looking good! Our beets, carrots, onions, romaine, greens, potatoes, garlic, and herbs are getting bigger and bigger.
We've begun a new gardening method: The square foot garden. The idea is to maximize the garden space by planting only what we need in an orderly fashion. So far, it looks really nice.
Robert starts some veggies and herbs from seed and keeps them in the house for a few weeks, then transplants them outside in the garden. It's a very delicate transfer process, and some can die from the shock. So far, most of the transplants have held up well.

The compost bin is slowly filling up. The soil is looking dark and rich, and we can't wait to use it in the garden- the plants are going to love it!

Saturday, December 20, 2008

All Is Quiet...


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Our nursery is finished! All organic sheets, blankets, mattress pads, and mattress, as well as organic, non-toxic, and sustainably-grown furniture! What a relief! Now if we can only figure out how to keep the bunnies out of the garden and the kitties out of the crib...

And just to get an appreciation of the prodigiousness of work involved, here is a before and after:

Sunday, December 14, 2008

PBDE's: The Silent Poisoners

Do you ever wonder why so many once rare ailments are becoming more and more common? The cause could be hiding in your own home!

PBDE's are commonly-used fire retardants that are proven to be very dangerous to our health. Below is a really informative article that explains the dangers of PBDE's pretty well.

Levels of Common Fire Retardants in Humans are Rising Rapidly
MARLA CONE / LA Times April 20, 2003
Cause for Alarm Over Chemicals (Excerpts)

Toxic chemicals used as flame retardants are rapidly building up in the bodies of people and wildlife around the world, approaching levels in American women and their babies that could harm developing brains, new research shows.

The chemicals, PBDEs, or polybrominated diphenyl ethers, are used to reduce the spread of fire in an array of plastic and foam products in homes and offices, including upholstered furniture (and bedding), building materials, televisions, computers and other electronic equipment.

This year, the European Union banned the two PBDE compounds that have been shown to accumulate in human bodies. Some European industries had already begun to phase out the chemicals, and levels in the breast milk of European women have begun to decline. But in the United States, no action to regulate the flame retardants has been taken, and their use continues to rise. About half of the 135 million pounds of PBDEs used worldwide in 2001 were applied to products in North America.

A single, small dose of PBDEs fed to newborn laboratory mice and rats disrupts their brain development, altering their learning ability, memory, behavior and hearing, according to three studies, two conducted in Europe and one at the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency. Mice fed less than 1 part per million of PBDEs performed poorly in maze tests and were hyperactive and slower to become habituated to new environments. The brains of newborn mice are altered when their bodies contain concentrations that are 10 to 100 times higher than levels already seen in some people in the United States today.

"That is not a comfortable margin of exposure," said Linda Birnbaum, director of experimental toxicology at the EPA's National Health and Environmental Effects Research Laboratory. Because concentrations in Americans are doubling every few years, it won't take long to close the gap.

Researchers say the effects on children are likely to be subtle -- not mental retardation or disability, but (rather) measurable changes in a child's intelligence, memory, hyperactivity and hearing. "We're concerned about learning and memory and some behavioral effects and hearing loss," Birnbaum said.

Exposure is probably highest in North America because it is the only place still using the form of PBDE most likely to accumulate in humans and the environment. That compound, penta-BDE, is banned in Europe but is used in the polyurethane foam of furniture (bedding) and building materials in the United States. Much less is known about any health effects of PBDE compounds that are applied to computers and electronics equipment and whether they accumulate in bodies.

What disturbs scientists the most about PBDEs are their striking similarities to PCBs, which were widely used as insulating fluids in electrical transformers until they were banned in the 1970s because they were collecting in the tissues of people and wildlife. Like PCBs and the pesticide DDT, PBDEs are slow to break down, persisting in the environment and accumulating in human and animal fat. PBDE concentrations increase as the chemicals move up through the food web, peaking in top predators such as whales, dolphins, birds of prey and humans.

PBDEs mimic thyroid hormones, which regulate the growth of a baby's neurological system. Because of that, if exposure comes during a critical phase of brain growth, it can alter how the brain develops, said Eriksson, the Swedish toxicologist. "There is a window of development when these compounds cause effects," Eriksson said. In humans, that period lasts from the third trimester of pregnancy to a child's second birthday.

Although EPA Administrator Whitman maintains that not enough is known about the effects of PBDEs to warrant regulating them now, Birnbaum, the EPA's director of toxicology, said "there is no question" that the chemicals are altering thyroid hormones. Altering thyroid hormones during fetal development "can affect how the brain functions," she said.

Research teams at Stockholm University and other scientific institutions in Sweden have led the investigation of the flame retardants. The chemicals, developed in the 1970s, were first detected in the environment in 1981 in a river downstream from a textile manufacturing plant southwest of Stockholm.As demand for flame retardants in electronics and furniture grew in the 1980s, PBDEs began to build up in nature and people, but few scientists thought to look for them. Then, in the mid-1990s, Swedish scientists checked women's breast milk and discovered that levels of PBDEs had increased sixty-fold.

Stockholm University researcher Daiva Meironyte-Guvenius said the growth in breast milk "was very scary. The reaction here in Sweden was very powerful." Facing public and political pressure, companies in Europe began to voluntarily phase out use of the most persistent flame retardants in the late 1990s.

PBDEs also are showing up in wildlife worldwide, settling in oceans and lakes just as PCBs and DDT did. Even polar bears near the North Pole and sperm whales feeding in deep ocean waters are contaminated with them. The effects on wildlife are unknown.

Some environmental scientists say the discovery of PBDEs near the North Pole proves their global spread, and that this should be an impetus for U.S. regulators to take precautionary measures as soon as possible. Many say they are dismayed that industry and society have forgotten lessons learned from the toxic legacies of the past.

Some Little White Lies about "Natural" Rubber

Common Talalay Rubber: Most latex rubber mattresses are made from this type of Talalay rubber which is a blend of man-made synthetic rubber (derived from petro-chemicals) with a percentage of real natural rubber. For instance, Latex International's very popular product, Talatech Latex, is a blend of 30% natural rubber and 70% synthetic rubber (also known as Styrene Butadiene Rubber or SBR). You will find this type of rubber used often in mattresses offered by most conventional furniture and sleep specialty stores. Legally, they can call it a "natural" latex bed.

Beware of "Natural Latex" mattress claims: Don't be fooled. Most latex mattresses are comprised of 70/30 or 60/40 Syntethic/Natural Blend. In addition to this, almost all contain high-density foam cores at the base as well as foam quilting and foam encasements (around the latex core for edge support). They can call it "natural latex" since the mattress does contain a bit of natural rubber, but remember that much of the bed will be constructed from foams and/or visco-elastic memory foam made with 100% petro-chemicals.

Organic Cotton

Robert and I got our nursery all set up, complete with wonderfully soft organic cotton sheets and blankets.

Why go for organic cotton over conventionally-grown cotton? It is not as simple as the fact that it is safer for baby's delicate respiratory system and maturing organs...
"Cotton has a good reputation. The soft, absorbent, breathable and natural "fabric of our lives" makes wonderfully comfortable clothing, bedding, towels, and (of course) cloth diapers. Unfortunately, modern methods of growing cotton are anything but natural. Conventional cotton production accounts for nearly 10% of the world's pesticide use and 25% of the world's insecticide use, as well as requiring a high amount of chemical fertilizers and synthetic soil additives. The alternative? Organic cotton.

Grown by farmers who use alternatives to chemical pesticides and insecticides, the quality of this friendly cotton is at least as good as the conventionally grown stuff. Like organic produce, organic cotton of course costs more, due to the extra effort and lower crop yield, but the environmental savings offsets the added expense. And as popularity continues to increase, the prices will fall." (Courtesy of http://www.babyfit.com/)

One small step...

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

All Clear!

I got my blood tests results! I do not have diabetes, am not a carrier for Cystic Fibrosis, and the chance that the baby will have Down Syndrome or Trisomy is 1 in 5,000 and 1 in >10,000, respectively.

Of course, only the diabetes test is 100% accurate at ruling anything out. But there are enough things to worry about during pregnancy, and having these simple tests done allow us to breathe a sigh of relief and set some of the worry aside.

Now I am going to go heat up the tamales and artichokes that I bought from the Farmer's Market today! Yummmmmmmy!

Sunday, November 30, 2008

15 Week Pic

Here I am at 15 weeks. It's very cruel to take a close-up belly shot the Sunday after Thanksgiving, by the way! ;)

Our Baby Furniture!




We ordered our baby furniture! They are all made from solid pine harvested from sustainably managed forests in New Zealand, and are finished only with certified non-toxic finishes and paints.

We decided to go with the oak finish on all of the furniture (the crib, 2 level dresser, and changing table are all shown in oak).

For our crib bedding, we are getting a plain white organic/chemical-free cotton crib set. Not only do we like neutral colors (including for our Pack 'n Play, stroller, and car seats), but it will be good to re-use if we decide to have another baby whose gender might be different!We got a conversion kit, so the crib can turn into a bed like below:

Saturday, November 29, 2008

Flutter?

Robert and I went out to dinner and I think that I felt a little flutter from the baby! So exciting!

Nursery Woes

(The Nursery- "Before" Photo)

We decided to convert the upstairs office area to a nursery. I moved my office downstairs into the guest bedroom, and it actually works out pretty well. I thought that it would be too congested, but there is plenty of room for everything. Actually, working with a smaller space forces me to be more organized and keep only the things that I need on a consistent basis (not my greatest strength!).

Now we need to clear out all of the excess junk upstairs to make room for the baby's furniture. We are going to box everything up tomorrow to put in storage, to give to Goodwill, to recycle, or to trash. I am tempted to just say, "throw it ALL away!"

This is where the crib will go (against the wall where the cat box and cat house are)...
Wish us luck!

Sugar Rush

This morning I went in to get some blood tests and to have a 1 hour glucose test, which tests for gestational diabetes. I have read that it is standard to give the 1 hour glucose test around week 28, but my doctor likes to give them early.

So they made me drink orange sugar water- 5o grams of sugar to be exact. I felt like a hummingbird! I had arrived fasting, so there was nothing protecting my stomach or body from this intense sugar rush. I felt kind of dizzy, nauseated, and wired- all the same feelings that I get from too much sugar. I really don't eat much sugar, so it hit me like the Tasmanian devil (which, they said, is normal). After 1 hour, they took my blood and told me that if the results were abnormal, I'd have to come in for a 3 hour glucose test. Oy vey.

The good thing was that the sugar rush only lasted about 40 minutes. I felt fine when I left!

Friday, November 28, 2008

Registries

Robert and I made the trek over to Babies R Us, which is a ZOO! We're so glad to have most of the registering out of the way. When you haven't had a baby before, there are so many items that you just wouldn't think of being helpful or needed. But a couple of our friends have been REALLY helpful in steering us in the right direction! One friend suggested to register on amazon.com since they have such a large selection at competitive prices, and that was a great tip.

Many items are available online only, which is kind of nice anyways because dealing with wrapping and searching for things in a huge store is a pain.

It's nice for Robert and I to have a list of all the things we want, so that when it comes time for us to buy them, we can do it quite easily and quickly!

So here they are:

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Pardon Our Garden!


Robert and I have started a vegetable garden. We are growing onions, beets, potatoes, garlic, and carrots. Inside the house, Rob has planted tons of different veggies and herbs in small containers that he will transplant when they get bigger (some are ready). We've got mesclun greens, romaine lettuce, red and yellow onions, lemon balm, basil, chamomile, thyme, and some others.

Rob has also begun a new hobby of finding volunteer trees (trees not planted, but that are growing from droppings of birds or seeds of trees that have fallen). He looks around the property and the Irvine property (shhhhh) for palm fronds and avocado trees- and even found a trumpet plant.



It's actually amazing how many palm volunteers are around, most of which will die if not properly cared for. At first, I scoffed at the idea, thinking that it was a waste of time. But then I realized how much fun it is to "save" a tree, nurture it, watch it grow, and then be able to either plant a nice, healthy tree that will survive, or give one away as a much-loved and cared for gift!





Rob and I are really excited to teach our little one to garden. It really helps kids understand patience, as well as the cycle of life and the metaphor of having to take time with a relationship and nurture it and watch it slowly grow.




Hooray for Dax!


It's been a pretty difficult process trying to find eco-friendly furniture online (and almost impossible to find in person). When I do find something I like, the company invariably does not have matching baby furniture. Then I found (cue "Hallelujah") "Dax Stores" at http://www.daxstores.com/. They claim to be the "world's largest eco-friendly department store," and I tend to believe them! It is also nice to find eco-friendly furniture (and bedding) that is stylish and not so plain.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

12 Week Pic


Robert took a picture of my belly when I was 12 weeks. I think that my belly will probably be getting much bigger very soon!

I just hope that people won't begin to touch my belly without asking- that sort of makes me uncomfortable!

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Genetics Test, Pics and GENDER!


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Robert and I went in for our First Trimester genetics test today. They did an ultrasound, and the baby looks absolutely 1000% healthy! We counted 5 fingers on each hand and 5 toes on each foot. They took some blood from me to screen for other genetic disorders, but they said that if the ultrasound looked good then most likely the blood results will be fine. Although I am 12 weeks 4 days since my LMP, the baby is measuring at 13 weeks 5 days! The technician even commented on the baby's "strong chin" (must be the Benford chin!).

Although still pretty early, the technician said that she was certain on the baby's gender! Actually, she pretty much blurted it out, so if we wanted it to be a surprise, we would have been quite mad!

My lips are sealed for now...

Monday, November 10, 2008

When Does it End?

I am confused as to when the First Trimester ends! Some websites say it is at 12 weeks (end of 11), and some say 13 weeks (end of 12). So according to some doctors, I am now in my Second Trimester!

I think we still want to wait a week or two to spread the news, though. It's sort of the calm before the storm! ;)

Friday, November 7, 2008

Fat Pants for Thanksgiving!

I went to Target and was drawn to the maternity section to catch a glimpse of my future. I spotted a pair of maternity jeans- jeans that fit normally and snugly except at the waist where there is a 2" band of elastic cloth instead of a button. Seeing as to how all of my jeans are getting tight and uncomfortable at the waist, I decided to try them on.

Much to my surprise, they were the most comfortable pair of jeans I have ever tried on! I felt like an impostor wearing them, though. I do not have a big, beautiful pregnant belly yet, so am I cheating by trying them on? Inside that small dressing room I engaged in a mini battle within myself: Do I buy the pants even though I am not big with belly and just admit that I am FAT? or Do I not buy the pants and suffer through keeping my jeans unbuttoned? Ok, so I wasn't really being fair to myself.

But here's the thing- I'm not fat (yet!). I have only gained 2 pounds in 12 weeks of pregnancy, which is a very respectable number. However, if you asked me how much weight I think I've gained, I'd say 10-15. Seriously. That's what it feels like to me. I asked my doctor about it, and apparently it's just water weight and bloating (read: gas).

So I bit the bullet and bought the jeans. I figure that they will come in very handy during Thanksgiving. In fact, I highly recommend them to all women, pregnant or non-pregnant! Plus, I will be getting bigger soon, and what's the harm in feeling comfortable as well as cute? Just don't expect me to show off the waist!

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Playing with Plants

Robert was talking about the nursery the other night, and said that he wanted to put tons of plants in it so it is like a greenhouse. A little overboard? Maybe. But he does have a point.

Did you know that some plants can remove formaldehyde, benzene, and carbon monoxide from the air in your home?

It is recommended that there is one 6 inch plant per 100 square feet of interior. I like the snake plant, because it's practically indestructible! Among spider plants, snake plants, Philodendron, rubber plants, and Golden Pothos, the following plants are very effective air purifiers:NASA research has consistently shown that living, green and flowering plants can remove several toxic chemicals from the air in building interiors.
Here's a nice little article about which plants do what: http://houseplants.suite101.com/article.cfm/houseplants_and_clean_air

I like the fact that in cleaning your house, you are also beautifying it. Two-in-one!

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Green Nursery

Robert and I are very passionate about "green living," which means "attempt to carry out your life in an eco-friendly, environmentally responsible manner, an attempt to minimize the size of your ecological footprint. Green living concerns itself with a range of topics and practices including conservation of resources, recycling, sustainability, green construction, alternative energy, organic food choices, and other environmental topics." (http://www.greenerlivingguide.com/)

Of course, in planning our nursery, we've been doing a lot of research on sustainable materials, as well as toxic and non-toxic materials. I am absolutely shocked at the amount of toxic materials that go into making most commercial baby mattresses, furniture, and bedding!

Consider this article from Consumer Reports:

Did you know… that standard bedding and furnishings are made from harmful chemicals like Formaldehyde? The effects of this chemical can be so toxic when dispersed in large amounts that some children, adults, and pets cannot tolerate even the smallest amounts of it when in the same room! So what exactly are your options once you realize there may be toxic gasses circulating throughout your home? Switch to organic furniture! Especially when it comes to purchasing furniture for your baby, organic is perhaps the best and safest way to go. As one organic-promoting company, A Natural Home, explains, adults and children who have used certain organic beds and furniture, “have had the following experiences: they feel better and enjoy being home much more, the furniture feels different and ‘pure,’ their headaches have been reduced or stopped completely, allergy symptoms have reduced or disappeared completely, breathing is better and easier, they have better sleep. Many have had the best sleep in their lives for the first time, [and] children have better behavior.”

As “going green” has become more common over the last several years, expertise in the realm of organic products has also increased, thus helping educate people about what organic furniture really is and what its benefits entail. According to Susanna Salk, the special projects editor of House & Garden Magazine, organic products are “are grown, raised or dyed without the use of synthetic chemicals, heavy metals or GMOs (genetically modified organisms, also called ‘genetically engineered’). They are free of toxins and irritants and are biodegradable.” Organic furniture is also “made with stuffing, upholstery fiber and wood certified as chemical-free,” which makes it “better for your skin” and “better to breathe in.”So if you find yourself in the market for baby bedding or baby furniture, protect your baby’s respiratory and dermatological health by taking the organic route. You can also purchase organic baby bedding and furniture items through Arm’s Reach, the reputable California-based company providing you and your baby with products that are “hand-crafted using certified organic cotton, premium Eco-Wool, 100% natural rubber, and untreated Baltic birch.” Each of their products is also “created from carefully selected high-quality raw materials and assembled with love in the USA.”
Sources:
A Natural Home. Why Organic Furniture? Retrieved July 28, 2008, from
http://www.anaturalhome.com/why-organic-furniture.php
Arm’s Reach. Nature Perfect and Organics. Retrieved July 28, 2008 from
http://www.armsreach.com/index.php?main_page=index&cPath=cPath=3_9

CBS
Broadcasting Services. (May 30. 2006). Latest in Organic Products:
Furniture. Retrieved July 28, 2008 from
http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2006/05/30/earlyshow/main1664460.shtml.com/stories/2006/05/30/earlyshow/main1664460.shtml

Unfortunately, "organic" furniture tends to be more expensive. However, when you consider that you can buy a conversion kit for the crib to turn it into a toddler's bed, it looks more and more like a wise long-term investment. I just wish that the kid furniture industry would offer some affordable non-toxic and natural furniture for those who simply do not have the funds to make such an investment. Let's face it, if price were not an issue, I am sure that a lot more parents would choose natural furnishings! It actually makes me quite mad that the baby industry is monopolized by huge companies that don't always provide the best and safest items for their customers!


The furniture that we are looking at is made by Pacific Rim (http://www.pacificrimwoodworking.com/). We are also going to buy a mattress made of organic cotton and non-toxic materials, which is not terrible too hard to find and not all that more expensive than the others.

Although it is A LOT more work looking for "green" furniture (as most larger baby stores do not carry it), we feel good about providing our little one with a safe, natural environment to live in- not to mention we are lucky enough to have some funds to invest!

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

10 Week Hummingbird


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Robert and I went in for an ultrasound to see our 10 week-old hummingbird. Robert called the baby a hummingbird because the ultrasound measured the heart rate at 154 bpm, and the Doppler at 172 bpm!
We were able to see the hands, feet, head, and limbs- so cool. We even counted 5 toes on the feet! We even saw the spine and the right and left hemispheres of the brain! WOW!

Baby was moving up a storm, and the ultrasound tech even got a small movement on video (although s/he was definitely moving more than the video captured), see below.

It is absolutely amazing to think that there is a human being inside of me when I can't feel anything and am not showing yet! I've had a pretty good pregnancy so far. Not too much morning sickness. Actually, when I do get nauseous, it feels more like I am VERY hungry (and usually am!). I am also very tired. Other than that, I feel pretty normal.


We are excited to tell everyone about our new family member, but on the other hand, we are quite enjoying having this wonderful secret to ourselves for a short time!